Is it safe to practice bondage?
Not everyone that is into bondage is into harsh whips, chains, or restraints. Bondage fans are not always hardened pain lovers or givers. Most importantly, whether you are dominant or submissive, make sure this person is someone you know very well and TRUST implicitly. You and your partners intensions and desires should be 100% consensual.
I'm new at this, what should I wear?
Darling, whatever floats your boat. It's very simple to slip into something that makes you look or feel the part of either being the dominant Master or Mistress - power, control and having command over your partner; or submissive Slave - obediant, passive and compliant.